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Understanding the Basics – Why Detangling Matters

May 28, 20253 min read

Hey beautiful! Let's talk real talk about something every natural hair sister needs to hear: detangling isn't the enemy – it's actually your hair's best friend.


I see so many of y'all come into my chair stressed about detangling, and honey, I get it. But once you understand the why behind what we're doing, everything changes. So grab your favorite beverage and let's break this down together.

The Unique Needs of Natural African American Hair

Our hair is absolutely gorgeous, but let's keep it 100 – it comes with its own set of rules. The natural curl pattern of African American hair creates bends and curves where strands can easily wrap around each other. Unlike straight hair that allows oils to travel down the shaft easily, our curls and coils make it harder for natural sebum to reach the ends, leaving our hair more vulnerable to dryness and tangling.

Think of it like this: imagine trying to slide a bead down a spiral staircase versus a straight slide. That's literally what's happening with moisture and oils in our hair structure.

The Science Behind Those Stubborn Knots

Here's what's really happening up there: when your hair strands shed (we lose 50-100 hairs daily – totally normal!), they can get caught in your curl pattern instead of falling away. Add in everyday friction from pillows, clothing, wind, and even how you sleep, and you've got the perfect recipe for tangles and mats.

The rougher cuticle structure of our hair means strands grab onto each other like velcro. Damaged or dry hair has raised cuticles that catch even more easily. Environmental factors like humidity, hard water, and product buildup can make this worse. It's not your fault – it's literally science!

Why Regular Detangling is a Game-Changer

Regular detangling prevents small knots from becoming massive mats that could lead to breakage or – heaven forbid – having to cut sections out. But that's just the beginning.

When you detangle properly, you're also:

  • Distributing natural oils from roots to ends

  • Improving blood circulation to your scalp through gentle manipulation

  • Reducing styling time because manageable hair is faster to work with

  • Preventing matting that can lead to permanent damage

  • Maintaining length retention by minimizing breakage

Think of detangling as preventive maintenance for your crown. You wouldn't skip oil changes for your car, right?

Let's Bust Some Myths

Myth: Detangling causes breakage.
Truth: Improper detangling causes breakage. When done correctly with the right tools, techniques, and products, detangling actually prevents damage and promotes healthy hair growth.

Myth: You should only detangle when washing.
Truth: Regular maintenance detangling between wash days keeps your hair healthier and makes wash day so much easier. Some hair types benefit from daily gentle detangling.

Myth: Natural hair should never be combed.
Truth: The right comb or brush, used correctly on properly moisturized hair, is perfectly safe and beneficial.

Trust me, sis – once you master this foundation, your hair journey will never be the same! In our next article, we'll dive into choosing the perfect tools for your hair type. 💕


References: Journal of Cosmetic Dermatology and International Journal of Trichology

Owner of Nikki's Mane Stops

Nicole Bryant

Owner of Nikki's Mane Stops

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